Interracial Marriages – What do you think?

I joke all the time about how great it will be when we’re all beige.  When the color of our skin will no longer be an issue and each of us is will only be judged by our character and behavior.

When I say all this, I mean it.  But I also realize that it’s probably not going to happen in my lifetime.  Maybe I’m wrong.  If I can live to be 100, I might have a chance.  What do you think?

Based on this article in CNN, my chances may have increased.

According to studies:

  • About one in seven marriages are interracial or interethnic, according to a new Pew study
  • Pew Center: Asians and Hispanics are most likely to marry outside of their race
  • In 2008, African-Americans 3 times more likely to marry outside race, compared with 1980
  • Americans, particularly Millennials, are more accepting of interracial relationships

CNN – In America Series - Interracial Marriages at an All Time Hight, Study Says.
By Stephanie Chen, CNN

Priya Merrill, 27, and husband Andrew Merrill, 30, married in  August. They are part of a growing trend of interracial marriages.

(CNN) — The first time Priya Merrill, who is Indian, brought her white boyfriend home for Thanksgiving in 2007, the dinner was uncomfortable and confusing. She still remembers her family asking if Andrew was the bartender or a family photographer.

The couple married last August, and her Indian family has warmed up to her husband despite their racial differences.

“I think we get the best of both cultures,” said Merrill, 27, of New York. She added, “Sometimes I just forget that we’re interracial. I don’t really think about it.”

Asian. White. Black. Hispanic. Do race and ethnicity matter when it comes to marriage?

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Sometimes, I wish I were a fly on the wall….OK, maybe a bee!

Bee Tornado?Yesterday, my daughter’s school yard had a HUGE swarm of bees come out of no where. As PJ put it, “it was a tornado of bees!”. Scary, right?

Well, last night, we get a call from the Principal (I played it on speaker since I was cooking dinner). The Principal starts off explaining about the bees and that they will close the playground if the bees return, etc. Then she gets serious and says, “Parents, PLEASE talk to your kids about being calm in an emergency. The screaming & running was very dangerous.” I then look over at PJ and raise my brow. Guess how big her eyes were?

I wanted to LMAO! But I tried to be serious about emergencies, etc. Didn’t work. She got all loud and said, “YOU just don’t know. I was a HERO!” I’m thinking, what is she talking about. She then says, “Me and KC, we rescued the kids.” I said, “You what?”

She proceeds to tell me the story….

Amongst all the screaming and running, most of the kids got back to the classroom safely. However, after a complete assessment, the kids (no teacher yet) determine there are missing children. Jonathon, a rather tall and older boy in the class says, “OK, who’s the fastest?” All the kids yell, “PJ and KC!” Jonathon turns to the door and says, “OK, you two run back out there and rescue the rest of the class.” Say what!?!

So they did. PJ and KC, super BEE heroes, run back out to the mayhem of screaming children and rescued the rest of the class!

Take that Mrs. Principal. I think these kids deserve a medal. Way to go, KC and PJ! My SUPER BEE HEROES!

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The census people found me…thankfully!

So, I’m the idiot that lost my census paperwork.  My brother said you can call it in.  I was going to do it, but somehow time just got away from me.  Know what I mean?  Because, seriously, of all the people, I should have been first and done a long time ago! Maybe if we checked our mail more than once a week, I wouldn’t lose so much stuff.  I think I will try to check it more often from now on. Cause you never know.  That million dollar check could be waiting for me.  Do they even do that any more?  Give away millions.

Ok, ok, back on track.  For the record, our household census is done.  Quite painless, really.  And quite gratifying.  Finally, my kids get to report BOTH of their ethnicities/race on the census.  They are, after all, Black AND Hispanic.  I know to some, this so insignificant and even menial, but to us, this is HUGE and I’m happy they are represented ACCURATELY!

So, remember, if you didn’t do your census, they will find you.  And if they find you, open the door.  It really took less than 10 mins. Very painless, very important!

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