Girls Hold Up This World!

we girls hold up this worldWhat a fantastic book by Jada Pinkett-Smith, Girls Hold Up This World!

It’s been a few years since I’ve read it.  My oldest has moved on to Diary of a Wimpy Kid and Charlotte’s Web.

So while digging for something my baby would like, I saw this wonderful book sitting on the shelf.

I thought to myself, M is not going to understand this at all.  But then again, does it matter, she will eventually and besides; it’s a great book to read while you squeeze your little girl tight.  It makes you proud to be a Mom and excited to raise an empowered, strong, independent daughter and for this, I thank Mrs. Smith.

So, to my daughters, my friend’s daughters and all the daughters in my family…

Be proud to be a girl – know what it means to you.  Be who you want to be – don’t doubt the things you do.

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What is a Mixtkid? Is it only about color?

I’ve been thinking, is a mixtkid only about a child of mixed color, or can it be about kids that are raised in different religious households or maybe even kids that come from households that were once heterosexual or nuclear and have since become homosexual or even kids that were adopted into homosexual families?

For kids, any household with contention or scrutiny, makes for one that is less peaceful, less comforting. So, to these children, I reach out.

God Knows All - but only if you're OPEN!

God Knows All. Really?

The recent controversy in Boulder Colorado, speaks volumes for how an adult disagreement can directly affect an unsuspecting child. I was born and raised Catholic, so I understand the doctrine. I understand the Church making a decision that speaks strictly for their doctrine and one that is designed to protect that doctrine. However, that in itself, does NOT make it right.

I am no longer a practicing Catholic, nor a member of any specific religion, and for reasons just such as this. Any religion that excludes ANYONE, is not for me. In my simple world, He (Allah, God, Buddah, Jah, etc.) loves us all, regardless of color, religious background, spiritual or sexual orientation.  And if you can keep a big secret, I’m not even sure there is a “God”, so I even embrace the Athiest.  I mean, really, all religions are based on belief and theory.  So, how can I not accept fact or science, right?  Anyway, let’s get back on topic.

What burns me the most about this whole incident; a child, an innocent child, can no longer go back to his/her preschool. Can’t return to past friends, beloved teachers, etc., because of something his/her PARENTS did. So what if the parents were heterosexual and terrorists, murderers, rapists, thieves?  Would the school eject the children of these parents or embrace them and try to help them through their “agony” or “crisis”?

Some might say that these parents didn’t just “do it” and quit, they are “living their life” outside of the Catholic doctrine and that’s grounds for expulsion. Well, I contend there are a whole lot of other parents in that school and church that are NOT living esteemed “Catholic doctrine” lifestyles, and if the Church decided to dig, they wouldn’t even have a school left to operate.  75% of the kids would have to go. Because remember, birth control, divorce, adultery, stealing, fornication, etc., are all against Catholic doctrine.

“Teach acceptance. God loves ALL children”.  A very simple message, spoken and written on the protester signs in Boulder.  I know I will teach my children this awesome message of tolerance and peace for ALL, and I hope you will too!

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My daughters won’t have to choose!

“This month, the Census Bureau will remind Americans that racial classifications remain an integral part of the country’s social and legal fabric while, at the same time, recognizing that racial lines are blurring for a growing number of people such as Harvey. The government will give the nation’s more than 308 million people the opportunity to define their racial makeup as one race or more.”

~ Multiracial no longer boxed in by the Census, By Haya El Nasser, USA TODAY

In just a few days, the government will give 308 million people the chance to report their racial background via the 2010 census. This will mark the 2nd year these 300 million plus Americans will be able to choose multiple races as their background. As a mother of multiracial children whom identify with both sides of their heritage and ethnic makeup, I’m very happy my daughters no longer have to choose. This simple choice is very empowering for my kids and the many other Mixtkids growing up in this country today.

If you’re multiracial, will you choose to identify with one or more races? Let me know. I’d love to hear other points of view.

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